The Pros & Cons of Uniforms in a Montessori Classroom
If you have had an experience similar to us here at Must Be Montessori, then most articles you have seen oppose the idea of uniforms. And I have to admit, that as a Montessori educator, I have also voted against uniforms. After some time and thought, however, I have come to have a more balanced outlook on them. I am here to share my Pros & Cons list with you all today in the event that you find yourself enrolling your student in a Montessori program that requires them.
Strengthens a Sense of Community and Belonging
“There is a great sense of community within the Montessori classroom, where children of differing ages work together in an atmosphere of cooperation rather than competitiveness. There is respect for the environment and for the individuals within it, which comes through experience of freedom within the community.”
When students wear uniforms, I have noted that they spend more time exploring materials and learning with their friends than comparing their outfits.
Limits A Child’s Freedom of Expression
“Let the children be free; encourage them; let them run outside when it is raining; let them remove their shoes when they find a puddle of water; and when the grass of the meadows is wet with dew, let them run on it and trample it with their bare feet.”
“Free choice is one of the highest of all the mental processes.”
Dr. Montessori believed we should encourage our children to make choices. It’s a great way to learn about natural consequences. And in a Montessori classroom, we strive to offer as many of those opportunities as we can. Uniforms can infringe on that aspect of learning through choice. And for many, this is a major strike against uniform policies.
Minimizes Learning Distractions
I remember vividly the “Free Dress” days, holidays, and “Dress Up” days when students were invited to wear whatever they wanted. There was palpable excitement as they entered the classroom. They could barely contain their enthusiasm as they waited for friends to arrive so they could see what they were wearing and show off their ensemble. Even days leading up to the “free dress” days were full of chatter and less calm. Having those days provided opportunities for the students to make their personal statements, while ensuring that days in uniform would provide them a calm environment for learning.
Could Interfere With Student’s Sense Of Self
Many people use clothing, shoes and accessories as outward clues about their internal world - how they identify, their personality, their preferences. Children appreciate the chance to do the same as they present themselves to their classmates each day.
One could consider, however, that in our screen-filled, commercial-saturated, and materialistic societies, children are more a product of what they are being fed. And in this way, a uniform policy could reduce some of that programming and allow our students to focus on what matters - discovering their passions and learning.
Exemplifies Montessori's “Freedom Within Limits”
“Let us leave the life free to develop within the limits of the good, and let us observe this inner life developing."
Sometimes, we, adults, think that we are free to make our own choices. But, in consideration of the needs of society, we are really free within limits. We can drive, but we have to obey the speed limits. We can eat what we want, but we have to face the consequences of unhealthy choices. We can skip work, but we risk being fired if we are irresponsible. There are limitations to our freedoms. Giving our children limits at an early age, sets them up for success as adults and helps them to feel comfortable in their choices. A uniform allows your student to choose from among a limited number of options while still encouraging them to choose.
Requires Monetary Investment
Sometimes, uniform requirements can feel like another bill that just adds to the list. Some kids want the newest fashions in addition to the daily uniform line ups, so parents are spending more. But, some students end up enjoying their uniforms so much that they don’t want to change out of them at the end of the day. In this case, the other clothing that they have lasts longer. If you’re in the first boat, there are a couple of ways to make your uniforms last longer…
Buy them one size larger
Don’t buy too many white shirts, at least not for preschoolers. They attract all the paint, dirt, and spaghetti sauce. First-hand knowledge here. :)
Protects From Criticism & Minimizes Brands
As noted above, students who do not have the latest fashion, shoes and accessories, do not have to worry that their outfit will be compared to one that is “better” when their classmates are wearing a variation of uniform, similar to their own.
Provides Opportunity to Discuss Social Norms & Workplace Rules
Along the lines of “Freedom Within Limits,” you can use the uniform discussion to talk about how you have to wear a certain kind of outfit for work. Whether you work at a gym, an office, a hospital, school, etc, you, as an adult, are also required to dress in a way that represents your employer in a way that they prefer. Modeling this for your student and comparing it to uniforms, can help them appreciate social norms and cues as they get older.
Could Create Power Struggles With Student
It felt like every morning. My student wanted to know why he couldn’t choose his own outfit. I would explain that these are the rules and each student was required but that was not enough.
Highlighting the calendar days that were listed as “Free Dress” helped occasionally, but all in all, the uniform policy can feel very restrictive for children who are accustomed to making many of their own choices.
If you are in a school that requires uniforms and this is your child too, try talking to them about the positives of the uniforms, to help them reconcile their frustrations. Hear them out, of course, but tell them how it can help others feel more comfortable, keep their “cool” clothes in optimal shape, etc. Because, fighting about what to wear is the last thing we want day after day.
Helps Keep Groups Together on Field Trips
This is a big one for teachers and parents who participate in outings and field trips. Keeping a large group of children safely contained while outside of the school environment is considerably easier when the group is dressed uniformly. And I know that, as a parent, I was always relieved when my student returned to the school safely.
Reducing visual noise is perhaps underappreciated. But in a world with screens in our pockets, our cars, our homes and on billboards, buildings and advertising vehicles, providing a tidy and calm visual environment for our children helps them devote their energy to learning and focusing.
There you have it.
My list of the benefits and detractors to uniforms in Montessori.
I am a mom and a Montessori- certified teacher, but by no means an expert. We all have our feelings and views on this touchy subject. So whether you are in favor of them or adamantly against the idea, talk to the school administrator if you or your student is struggling. And find a friend who can help them see the positives. Sometimes, our students need to hear it from their peers or just anyone who is not their parent. And if your student enjoys the uniform, please, enjoy the hassle-free mornings for the rest of us.